Hi
Thanx to everyone who commented on my last post......yes of course I will support my daughter and love my grandchild but the road for her is not going to be a pleasant one...the father of the baby is a no hoper they split up 2 weeks ago and really she wouldnt want him in her life now.....not sure why she had him in her life to begin with and not sure why she didnt take precautions god knows how many conversations we had about that but what is done is done, no use crying over spilt milk so to speak ....but he has been giving her such a hard time since she has been here that she has had to go change her phone number and is looking at having to take legal steps ( which she doesnt want to ) but may have to so things arent good.
I have been feeling really sick in the tummy.....especially after my evening meal but over the weekend its been from lunch time onwards .....was having a cuppa with my friend yesterday and said to her you know if I didnt know better I would swear I was pregnant as its the same feeling I had then , she laughed and said to me maybe you are having Ash's morning sickness...I looked at her , she looked at me and we both said is that possible??...Does anyone have any ideas on that one ???
Exercise could be better, eating could be better....... if this gets back on track I know I will feel better emotionally as well as physically....havent lost the attitude just its gone into hiding.......scary bit is I am afraid of loosing it...gawd this is awful.....maybe I really do need to go talk to someone as I just cant seem to cope all that good these days when things go wrong and gees life isnt rosey all the time for any of us.
Hope you are all having a lovely weekend
Em x
6 comments:
Yep it is possible to have someone's morning sickness, it hasn't happened to me....but my sister did suffer my sickness for me when I had my boys, wish it was when I had my daughter as I was so sick but then she was pregnant yourself.
All the best to you, hope you find that "attitude" again....
Jen
*hugs* I don't have any profound words to offer you, just my sympathy. The thought of what you and your daughter face in dealing with this situation is heart-wrenching.
You need support for yourself in order to be able to support your daughter effectively. Find someone to talk to and help you through this and keep in your mind the thought that the future holds much joy and is worth the struggle in the long run.
Hubby occasionally claimed to be suffering sympathetic morning sickness when I was pregnant. I was skeptical LOL!
Now I understand why you're so concerned and worried for your daughter - doesn't sound like an easy time ahead for any of you but she does have one huge thing going for her - a loving and understanding Mum! Just wondering if your sickness is actually stress induced - you have an awful lot going on in your life at the moment and being a Mum you feel you should be able to make it all better - but sometimes you just can't. Having pushed myself to the limit with stress a long time ago (thankfully got help just in time)I think it might be a good idea to visit a counsellor if there's one near you. Just the unloading of all the worries you're carrying around inside to someone who's not involved is immensely therapeutic. Take care and try and find a minute to be kind to yourself.
Z xx
Hi Em,
Sorry to hear about your worries - the news must have been upsetting. I hope that things settle down with the ex boyfriend and that you and your daughter can adjust to the changes coming up - and that the worries turn to joy and happiness!
Hang in there and make sure you look after yourself!
chris xx
So sorry things aren't good for your daughter. It isn't fair!
My husband had morning sickness every morning instead of me when I was pregnant with my first child.
Hello Emi, where are you. Come back now.
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